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When planning an event, the host works to organize, prepare, and execute a great outing. Having coordinated and planned many events, I find systems that work for me and usually try to repeat the successes and adjust the failures.
Though I have general guidelines for baby showers, birthday parties, and dinners with friends, I continue to discover and adjust with each event. I have learned that the best way to have a successful event is by working with the guest of honor.
For a dinner with friends, my friends would be the guests. I would plan a menu around their likes, allergies, and preferences. For a baby shower, the guest would be the mom-to-be. I would want to consult her before planning a Huggies diaper shower because she may opt for cloth diapers.
In preparing for a 4-year-old summer birthday party, I invited my daughter, the guest of honor, to go shopping with me for party supplies. Besides being elated to gather Strawberry Shortcake items, she got one-on-one time with Mommy. By having the guest of honor at the store to choose items for the party favors and decorations, I was able to discern what she likes about Strawberry Shortcake. Now as I plan the format and games for her party, I have a better understanding of what she likes and what games she wants to play.
As you plan your next event, consider your guest of honor. I understand that your style may not be the same or your preferences, but your event will be for your guest of honor. The better you understand your guest of honor and incorporate his or her interests into your event, the better your event will be.
I know it can be difficult, but use your time wisely and do your best. Be willing to step out of your comfort zone as you plan, organize, and execute a great event for your guest of honor. You will be so glad you did!