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There comes a time when you will realize that you CANNOT do it all. There are only 24 hours in one day, and you really must get your sleep. During seasons of busyness, I am learning to willingly accept help even if the task is not done to my specifications.

At this time, I am in the middle of rehearsals for my son’s Christmas program. Besides needing crowd control, sets, props, costumes, and lighting for the program, I also need distractions for my girls. Both of them enjoy hanging out with mom at the rehearsals, but they can get into trouble. By willing accepting help offered to watch my girls, I am better able to concentrate on leading and guiding the student actors.

On the day I did not have help with my girls, I found the students distracted and lacking in focus during our time together. Though I would rather have my girls with me, I know I need some assistance, and I willingly accept help that is offered.

Coming to the conclusion that I cannot do it all has brought me to willingly accept help. With the extra hands to assist and play with my girls, I have been able to focus on the students and make progress while using time wisely. My load has been lightened as I let go of perfection and willingly accept help.

Question: Do you find it hard to willingly accept help? I do, but I am learning. If you struggle or struggled with accepting help, can you offer this Momma any pointers on the subject? Would love to hear your comments.