Photograph Credit: Melissa Caligiuri
In looking back to last week, I am amazed at what was accomplished in spite of spending 3-4 days tag teaming with Paul holding our toddler as she recovered from hand, foot, and mouth. This virus surfaced on Black Friday and developed into blisters down the back of her throat. Besides feeling awful, she only wanted to be held and needed to sleep sitting upright.
Thankful for my husband’s time off, I worked together with him to get sleep, clean our house, play with our older kids, and comfort our little one. Though it would be easy to focus on all the things that needed to be done, we chose to give ourselves to our little one. She was hurting and needed that extra tender care during her illness.
Recovered and happy to be running around, little one is now getting into everything. As she pulls out items and leaves them, I really want to fuss and return the items to their assigned places. If I did this, then she would not learn. Though she is not our only child that leaves items out, I am learning to take the time to patiently instruct, teach, and correct. As she learns and is rewarded with cheers, she has been eager to put away other items when asked.
By giving my toddler special attention, I found that our special bond has strengthened. By using time wisely with my daughter, I am giving her the best gift I can, myself. As you contemplate gift ideas for this upcoming season, don’t underestimate the gift of you.
Question: To whom have you given the gift of you? Would love to hear your answer!